Sunday, 23 September 2012
I still do not understand serial monogamists.
There was a girl who asked me up front one night if I was looking for a serious relationship.
What did I say? Yes.
But not with her. Or right now at that second...or minute...or hour...
Okay, so you get that I was lying through my teeth.
What happened to just being single? I know I'm not getting into a relationship unless it is someone that I am 80% sure I want to date her.
I have a theory that 80/20 is good enough. It is reasonable without having overly high standards. B's in class aren't THAT bad, contrary to what Asians believe:
A "B" cup is not that bad either ladies...
but back to my point.
80% is good stuff. All the pros. She likes what you like, and she is attractive and intelligent enough to be seen in public with.
20% is all the cons/bad stuff: The crazy. Her desiring sex less often. Her losing your things. Not knowing how to cook/clean so you have to do it all. The list goes on.
I'm sure you have heard this theory before, but I want to add something to it:
The lower percent of cons/bad stuff a woman has, the worse it is.
Sure, you may get a 95/5, but she is probably a serial killer, has MAJOR emotional/depression issues, does drugs, has children, herpes, etc.
(Would you catch Scarlett Johansons' herpes?)
My conclusion: Don't date until you are ready. Shacking up with people for the sake of a relationship status change on Facebook is ridiculous at best, and excruciatingly desperate at worst.
-edit- Disclaimer: I don't know if Johansson really has herpes.