Friday, 07 September 2012
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Women Are Just As Bad As Men
I was with some friends yesterday, and the oddly specific topic of cheating came up. One of my friends is in a situation where he could be having sex with his roommate's girlfriend. When he told us about this, one of the guys said "Yeah that doesn't matter too much, I've been with 2 married women."
One of my best friends has also been with a girl who was cheating with him on her boyfriend.
Often, I hear about women preaching about men being cheaters, as if the male gender is a roving mass of dicks that can't be tamed.
But I rarely ever hear about women, well, unless it is the guy who she is cheating with.
Similarly, I have also noticed that women are less easier to catch then men, mainly, because men are stupid.
I have came to the conclusion that women are no less guilty than men when it comes to cheating.
And if you cheat, you don't deserve a second chance. End of story. There is no excuse. You will always look worse cheating than breaking up and switching up partners.
I cheated once, just to see what it was like. I never got caught because I 1) cheated with women 3 neighborhoods away, and 2) went to different schools. However, I found two women to be too much maintenance, and broke up with the extra woman. Smooth.
I must ask why women do this, when they can simply stay single and be with whoever they want?
Do they simply want more than one sex partner? Is it the danger of getting caught or having a secret? Do they not know what they want?
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Comments (38)
Yeah, I agree with you. I have a lot of guy friends that have been cheated on.
I was with someone who threatened to cheat but never did. I ended up feeling like she wanted to be with someone else so we broke up.
okay well,
how is cheating worse than having sex with someone you know is in a relationship?Some people cheat and others don't. Some do it because they have no moral concept of why they shouldn't do it, others are opportunist cheaters, and others have some emotional shit to deal with in their relationship that somehow justifies cheating.
But I don't think any one gender is less or more innocent than the other.
Agreed! I've always believed men and women were just as bad as the other when it came to stuff like this. I also believe that cheaters don't deserve second chances.
hmm it seems the genders are equal on this one just that women don't get caught out as much. I've never cheated, kinda wish I had with my ex though to see what it was like cos I had the opportunity but didn't do it and then he ended up cheating on me anyways so it's just like, I could have had the expereince without any repercussions. Oh well it's not amazing just the secretiveness I think would be hot.
Heh. I got some stories for you sometime. wink wink nod nod.
It's not that women don't get caught .... It's that men don't make the biggest scene about it like women do...*shrugs*
Cheating isn't in my nature and besides, it would be far too exhausting to deal with.
and just think, there is so much that is never documented! People take their secrets to the grave (or at least they used to)
Jyll Stonecypher
Bed of Cole's (A-I Press)
Only reason I think some women cheat is because their dude isn't giving them the attention they need from them and they look for other guys to give that.
Cheating is just wrong. It hurts people.Yeah, women definitely do it, too. As for your question, "why cheat when you could be single and sleep with anyone you want?"-- Couldn't you ask men who cheat the same question? Maybe the grass is greener on the other side? I don't know.
I think women are catching up to the stuff men have been doing for centuries.
In most cases...I really just think its the excitement of it. The thrill. The thought of having your cake and eating it too.
It just seems so exhausting. One persons emotions are hard enough to juggle..who in their right mind, would want to add another persons emotions to the mix? Much like the mystery of how,many licks it takes to get to the center of a tootsie pop..the world may never know!
@TiredSoVeryTired - not sure if retard or troll...
@SlackerSociety - What? First of all never use the "r" word. It is incredibly rude and shows a lack of class.
Men have been cheating for centuries in much greater numbers than women cheated. Now, the numbers of women cheating is catching up to the numbers of men cheating. Society doesn't totally ostracize women for cheating like society used to.
Women cheat because they are much harder to catch in the act apparently.
People are too busy blaming the guilty party and noticing the gender tends to be the male persuasion yet we don't acknowledge that it takes two individuals of different genders to cheat in a heterosexual relationship.
@TiredSoVeryTired - If men have been cheating for centuries, all that time who are they cheating with? Other men (?) otherwise we are forgetting the most important factor the other individual is a woman who plays a vital role in the cheating process. Just because women aren't always the focal point of the cheating doesn't mean they aren't involved.
@JustPlainMorgie - I plead the fifth.
@Parsimony - I've been saying this for years. Thank toffee covered Jesus someone else gets it.
Sex can be different with each person and it could be an attempt to buck the expectation that women should limit their partners, because it supposedly makes them look like wh0res. Check this if if you get bored:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2118528/The-sexual-revolution-Forget-Swinging-Sixties-A-new-book-says-Moll-Flanders-Britain-makes-look-like-vicars-tea-party.html
@Parsimony - We're talking about who is doing the cheating. Obviously men have been cheating in relationships with women... but that's not the topic. Now, women are doing the cheating in a relationship at greater numbers than before. Plus, I don't care who the other woman/man is... the one in the relationship is the one doing the cheating.