Monday, 27 August 2012
In my near seven years of blogging about the ups and downs of my dating life and giving dating advice, and ranting, and trolling shitty Datingish posts, there is one thing that I have learned(amongst many other things), is that women usually suck at dating advice. I in the past have went to women for dating advice, and have failed miserably. The best advice that a woman has ever given me, was the same my best friend gave me, which was "chill the fuck out". (thanks @lovejennyy)
Women usually seem to advise what they would want, but since I'm not chasing them, it is largely ineffective. Men, for the most part seem to offer something a bit more objective, or just say "not my department" and lean back put their hands in their pants and continue drinking their beer.
Something that I largely dislike is when women give other women advice about men. Now while this may seem legit because guys are dumb and therefore easy, I would like to assert that a surprising number of women, know absolutely jack shit about men, or entrust Cosmopolitan magazine to make up for their lack of knowledge, but I repeat myself.
I have several people who entrust me to give them relationship advice. I'm no relationship guru, but I always give advice knowing that they have the option of saying "bullshit", and the additional fact that giving advice is always easier than actually acting upon it and following through with it.
"Everyone can master a grief but he that has it" - William Shakespeare