Monday, 27 August 2012
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Dating Advice
In my near seven years of blogging about the ups and downs of my dating life and giving dating advice, and ranting, and trolling shitty Datingish posts, there is one thing that I have learned(amongst many other things), is that women usually suck at dating advice. I in the past have went to women for dating advice, and have failed miserably. The best advice that a woman has ever given me, was the same my best friend gave me, which was "chill the fuck out". (thanks @lovejennyy)
Women usually seem to advise what they would want, but since I'm not chasing them, it is largely ineffective. Men, for the most part seem to offer something a bit more objective, or just say "not my department" and lean back put their hands in their pants and continue drinking their beer.
Something that I largely dislike is when women give other women advice about men. Now while this may seem legit because guys are dumb and therefore easy, I would like to assert that a surprising number of women, know absolutely jack shit about men, or entrust Cosmopolitan magazine to make up for their lack of knowledge, but I repeat myself.
I have several people who entrust me to give them relationship advice. I'm no relationship guru, but I always give advice knowing that they have the option of saying "bullshit", and the additional fact that giving advice is always easier than actually acting upon it and following through with it.
"Everyone can master a grief but he that has it" - William Shakespeare
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I can't speak for other women but I am really shitty at dating advice.
Rarely have I found anyone who is good at giving dating advice, regardless of gender.
I thought Cosmopolitan was the ice cream, but then realized that's actually called a Neopolitan. Yeaaah...I don't think I've ever read those kinds of things. I give my opinion as to what people should do about something when they ask; but I always remind them before and after that it is merely my opinion. But whatever, more than half the time that people ask for advice, they never actually listen or follow through anyway. Which is why I don't bother giving advice unless they insist.
I give advice like a dude. I was actually going to blog about it......lol
Anyway, so why don't you just go to a dude for advice if girls are useless?
@babyxxxo - not to sound self centered, I end up going to myself for advice. I usually can fighure out something if I can sleep on it, or meditate. how do you think I come up with the insight I do in the first place? lol
@loneshadow_wolf - Yeah I try to think it through and not sugar coat it, I know things are rougher than they may seem to me because I'm not in that situation
can u give me advice how guys think/ i so do not get them
@Want2FitIn2Fat2Fit - sure message me sometime.
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