Today a conversation came up at work with a coworker about his brother being a porn actor and being married. 

Despite some obvious problems with this, I think that if it works, it works, but from what I've seen, usually "adult actors" date or marry other "adult actors", because they would be a bit more likely to understand that they have sex with other people as a profession, and I'm sure there is more disclosure. 

However, I would like to imagine the lucidity of the situation. If you were a porn star, you would most likely choose someone who you are not just  more  physically attracted to, but compatible with. There's simply no other option than the latter. 

It also prevents women from using sex as a weapon, which I hate those that do.

Would you date or marry a porn star?

A reply to Dan's post.

The things I put into my cell phone are revealed. I often make notes before I go to sleep, and during moments of wittiness or sagacity. And random times.

People watch television to experience an alternate reality. Luckily for them, the news gives plenty of it.

You know your job sucks when everyday you go in you are thinking of legitimate ways to quit or get fired to still get unemployment checks.

People misunderstand me often, especially when I decide to grow a pair and call them out on their bullshit. When this happens, they think "Oh no, he's not our placid magical negro anymore we gotta do something!" I have lived with 3 black women for 20 years, so I have a gigantic abuse threshold, and you were stupid enough to cross it. 

Oftentimes, there are things that I forget that black people are oblivious to or do not think are cool. Three of these include vampires, werewolves, and mages. Also, the Syfy channel.

I don't know why you do the things you do. We fight for our lives until our demons are illusions. We settle for grandeur or nothing at all. Mindless self indulgence is an understatement that undermines both us and our fellow man, seeking only to devour, and spread shame, when in reality, we are the ones to blame. Perhaps you need some time...think it over. Abstain narcissistic drunkenness